Stop Beating Yourself Up for Drug Addiction and Alcoholism
April 10, 2008
Don’t beat yourself up for your drug and alcohol addiction. Really, what is the point? When you began using in the very start, the substance abuse served some purpose in your life.
It may have helped you to avoid some type of emotional pain, deal with a mental illness, or fit in with a group of people. It likely did more than one thing. The important thing to recognize is that you didn’t know better at the time. You probably didn’t realize what you were getting yourself into, or you wouldn’t have started the habits of substance abuse. You thought that you would be different and be able to control your consumption, even if you did know some of the risks of addiction.Ultimately, drugs and alcohol were the best coping methods that you had for your problems at the time. They were not the best way of dealing by any means, and you probably know that now, but they were the best way that you had in front of you then. If you’d had the skills and knowledge to handle your problems in a healthy manner, you would have done it. Unfortunately, you didn’t. This only means that you should not continually beat yourself up for your drug addiction or alcoholism. Nothing good can come of that. It will only lead to lower self-esteem, depression, and a lack of confidence, which are things that further keep you stuck in the cycles of substance abuse.
Now that you know there are better ways to cope with life than using drugs and alcohol, you can take advantage of new methods. This usually begins with a period of medically-supervised detox, following by getting help from a rehabilitation program. When you do this, you will learn the things that will allow you to handle problems without resorting to substance abuse in the future. You will have a better way.
Very good advise about going to detox. It is especially helpful for opiates and benzos. It makes things more comfortable for heavy drinkers as well